my marriage

i seem to have a few friends who hate their wives!? why they stay married is beyond me? even more important what changed? from love and marriage to hate and staying together and having a miserable life forever?, i cant see it! im not an idiot and i know there's divorce and usually after a couple of years when people find out that they are not right for each other!,or one or both people comes out with there true traits that they didnt have before there vows!, i was married young myself and will not put blame on either side! and say we rushed the relationship a bit, fast before we knew what each others true colors were! but i wont be irresponsible and put all the blame on just one of us!,,i have a wife now i love with all my heart and we are good for each other! we have our scrapes and irritations but we talk things out like adults and we bend for each other!,people are not perfect and a relationship is never a perfect thing so we understand that and we wont let it get to the point of such anger!,because its a thing we dont like not each other!! we love each other and we must keep that at the front of everything!,we even change together as we spend time we grow, each of us and some things change! but we still complete each other!,or add a little to one another to make something nice!, i still remember what loneliness was and i will never have that again!, i will have a warm smile and someone to hold! we can count on each other to be there for them! and thats what marriage is about and should never be forgotten.