compassion

compassion is a hard subject to write about!! you either have it or you dont!, and you work towards having it! or you dont !,it can be the most wonderful quality one can have! just to have it within ones family is the greatest gift you can give them!you cannot give compassion to yourself!you have it in your heart to give to others! its an understanding of ones feelings and acting in a manner that only makes them feel good!,i think it is one of the most beautiful quality's that one can have!, even at the cost of your own pain to give of yourself for ones comfort!, we go through alot of trials in life and are hurt many times so to a degree we can understand pain in another and this is why we are compassionate!, i have found the less pain one has gone through the less compassion they show or they can only show it it some areas! the ones that have gone through a lot of pain in a lot of areas show the most compassion!, its sad really!,but in most cases reality!,some just have anger for what they have been through or show frustration as in'' i went through it why cant they''!, but it is always recognized for what it is!, i have seen fake and real compassion and they are always seen for what they are!,but to feel true compassion from someone!, a bond is formed that will last forever and cherished!.